


On Yana Toboso's blog, she also consistently uses male pronouns and she and Grell both use the word okama - which usually is used for effeminite gay men and crossdressers - to describe Grell. In those, Grell is referred to - by the author herself - with a mix of male pronouns and female titles. Everyone completely ignores the pages that come before it in the Guide, however. Yes, Grell uses feminine pronouns in the Confessional. I'm sick of seeing my trans* friends and myself labelled as transphobic because we don't believe Grell absolutely must always be referred to with female pronouns (even though many of us do use them). People are literally falling out of love with the character and leaving the fandom because this issue keeps coming up and people are being downright rude about it. As a trans* person who's active in this fandom and has done a lot of looking ito the topic, I can't tell you how tired of this.
